For couples planning their own wedding

Every detail held — from yes to the last thank-you.

Happily begins before ever after.

Every planning app has a checklist and a budget tracker. Ever & After holds the whole wedding, every household, every occasion, every room's seating chart, every dollar spent and still owed, and then reads it back to you: what matters this week, the email you're avoiding, the money hiding in your budget.

The planner

Your whole wedding, in one place.

This is the planner: your guests and households, your budget, your vendors, the rooms, and the tasks between now and the day. Four of its pages are open below, and there's more of it on the Features page.

Correspondence, save-the-dates to thank-yous

Sort your guests into households and track all four mailings, sent or not sent for every household. When the regrets come in, you already know who's next.

Premium. Guests and RSVP tracking are free — track the responses you receive, from awaiting to attending.

Correspondence Sample wedding

Sarah & Mike · save-the-dates · invitations · reminders · thank-yous

The Thompson Family4352 Willow Street, Seattle A-List 3
Guests in this household
Elizabeth Thompson AttendingAnthony Thompson AttendingHarper Thompson Attending
Correspondence
Save the Date Sent Physical · Jan 9, 2027
Invitation Sent Physical · Apr 3, 2027
RSVP Reminder Sent Email · May 1, 2027
Thank You Not Sent
The Nakamura Family4552 Cedar Street, Portland A-List 3
Guests in this household
Joshua Nakamura AwaitingEmily Nakamura AwaitingKenji Nakamura Awaiting
Correspondence
Save the Date Sent Physical · Jan 9, 2027
Invitation Sent Physical · Apr 3, 2027
RSVP Reminder Not Sent
Thank You Not Sent
The Okafors18 Harbor Road, Tacoma A-List 2
Guests in this household
James Okafor AttendingPriya Okafor Attending
Correspondence
Save the Date Sent Physical · Jan 9, 2027
Invitation Sent Physical · Apr 3, 2027
RSVP Reminder Not Sent
Thank You Not Sent

Mark Sent records a mailing you sent yourself. Nothing here sends one.

Budget, allocated to spent

Categories with allocated-versus-spent tracking, and every expense logged against one. Spent counts only what you've actually paid; a bill past its due date shows as overdue.

Free. Build my budget and Optimize budget, the two AI features, are Premium.

Budget Sample wedding

Sarah & Mike · $4,550 of $30,000 spent so far

Allocated$27,000of $30,000
Paid$4,550so far
Still owed$14,9004 unpaid expenses
Venue & Catering$2,000 of $12,000
$10,000 remaining
Photography & Video$0 of $4,500
$4,500 remaining
Flowers & Decor$150 of $2,500
$2,350 remaining
Attire & Beauty$1,450 of $3,000
$1,550 remaining

Four of eight categories shown. The totals above include all eight.

Unpaid expenses $14,900
  • Venue balanceVenue & Catering · due June 5$7,500
  • Photography packagePhotography & Video · due May 20$4,200
  • Floral design contractFlowers & Decor · due June 12$2,880
  • Suit rentalAttire & Beauty · due June 10$320

A deposit and its balance are separate expenses, so a paid deposit never hides what is still owed.

A chart for every room

Draw the room, drop guests into seats, and undo anything you regret. Auto-seat proposes the whole room in one pass, and nothing changes until you press Apply.

Premium, with its three AI features inside.

Sarah & Mike’s Wedding · The Grand Ballroom 90 of 90 seated

Reception · Rosewood Estate · tables 1–5 of 12 shown

DANCE FLOOR Head Table Family Friends College Neighbors BAR
seated◌ open seat
Auto-seatSample

Auto-seat uses households, couples, and your saved keep-apart rules to propose who belongs together, then fills your tables. Nothing changes until you apply.

Anything to keep in mind? (optional)
wedding party at the head table, keep the Thompsons together

Reshuffle as often as you like. In the app it runs on your device and costs no AI request.

Tasks, pending to done

Tasks with due dates, priorities, milestones, and owners, and a ready-made starting list so day one isn't a blank page. Generate tasks builds a list around your wedding instead.

Free. Generate tasks and Focus are Premium.

Planning Sample wedding

Sarah & Mike · Roadmap

Open tasks13
Due this week3
Next dueMay 12Confirm reception menu with the caterer
Milestones
Venue & Date 6 of 6
Vendors Booked 5 of 7
Invitations 4 of 5
Final Details 1 of 6
Week Of 0 of 3
Generate tasksSample

A personalized task list that takes you from today to your wedding day — built from your date, guest count, budget, vendors, and the tasks you already have.

AI-generated task list — review and uncheck anything you don’t want.

5 tasks sized to a 6-week runway. Your venue, photographer and caterer are already booked, so those steps are skipped.

Your final headcount is due to the caterer on June 9, three days after the reply-by date passes for stragglers.

Uncheck a task and the count follows.

Guests, RSVPs, budget, vendors, occasions, and tasks are free, no card required. Households and correspondence, seating charts, and the AI features are Premium. See the plans.

Then, the intelligence

AI features built from your wedding.

No generic advice

Suggestions are grounded in your real counts, vendors, dates, and planning state. A task list sized to your runway, not a twelve-month template.

Accepted item by item

The server rejects any budget suggestion below what you've already paid or inside a category you've marked protected. Auto-seat applies in one step and undoes in one.

Written from your point of view

Vendor emails and RSVP nudges are drafted for whoever is writing, one of the couple, the planner, or family, with your date, venue, and headcount already in. Ready to send, not rewrite.

Every AI suggestion is labeled, and nothing happens without your review.

Nine AI features: a personalized task list, a whole room seated in one proposal, the vendor email drafted for you. All nine, in detail.

And after

The day ends. Everything stays.

The morning after, the whole language of urgency goes to sleep. Then the top of your wedding stops counting down and starts counting up: thank-yous sent, money still owed. Send the last thank-you and the wedding offers to keep itself as a keepsake.

How the epilogue works
Free and Premium

Free to start. Premium for seating, households and correspondence, and AI-assisted features.

Free $0, forever

  • Unlimited guests & RSVP tracking
  • Budget categories & expenses, paid and outstanding
  • Vendors, your venue, and the occasions around the day
  • Tasks with a ready-made starting list
  • Invite your partner to plan together
Start for free

Plans and pricing, in full.

Name your date. Start your list.

Free to start, no card required. Premium when you want the seating charts, households, and the AI features.