FAQ

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The product

What is Ever & After?: A wedding planning app: guest list and RSVPs, budget, vendors, and a task timeline in one place — with an AI layer that reads your real plan and helps you act on it. It's built for couples planning their own wedding (and the planners and friends helping them).
What does the AI actually do?: Six things today: builds a personalized checklist with real due dates, picks the five things that matter most this week, optimizes your budget with the math shown, builds a starting budget from what you care about, drafts vendor emails, and drafts RSVP follow-ups. Every output is labeled AI-generated, and nothing applies or sends without your review.
Can the AI be wrong?: Yes — and we say so right next to every output. Treat suggestions as starting points, not recommendations: double-check important details, review drafts before sending, and remember budget guidance is informational, not professional financial advice.
Does it send emails to my guests or vendors?: No. The AI drafts; you copy the draft into your own email (or open your mail app with it pre-filled) and send it yourself. Nothing leaves the app without you.
Can my partner or planner use it too?: Yes — invite them to your wedding and you plan from the same data. Contributors on a Premium wedding get the AI features with the creator's plan: the wedding is premium, not the seat.

What do I get for free?: The full manual planner, forever: unlimited guests and RSVP tracking, budget, vendors, and the timeline with our standard checklist template. No card required.
Can I cancel anytime?: Yes, from inside the app. Cancellation takes effect at the end of your billing period, with no fee.
What happens to my data if I cancel or downgrade?: Nothing is deleted. Your guests, budget, vendors, and timeline stay exactly as they are — you just lose access to the AI features until you upgrade again.
Is there a refund policy?: Yes — see the refund policy linked in the footer. If something's wrong, tell us early and we'll make it right.

What happens to my data when I use AI features?: The content you provide (budget details, vendor information, message context) is sent to Anthropic, our AI service provider, to generate a response. Anthropic processes it on our behalf and doesn't use it to train AI models. The full picture is in our Privacy Policy.
Is my wedding data private?: Yes. Your plan is visible only to you and the people you invite to it. We don't sell your data, and vendor notes you mark private are never included in outgoing email drafts.

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