Common questions.
The product
What is Ever & After?
A wedding planning app: guests and households, RSVPs, budget and expenses, vendors and venues, the occasions around the day, a seating chart for every room, and tasks, in one place, with an AI layer that reads your real wedding and helps you act on it. It's built for couples planning their own wedding, and the planners and friends helping them.
How is this different from the free planner on a wedding website?
Most wedding sites are built around a registry and a vendor marketplace, with planning tools alongside. Ever & After is only the planner: every household and its mailings, every occasion, a drawn seating chart for every room, every dollar paid or still owed, and AI that proposes into that record instead of acting on it. Use it alongside a guest-facing wedding website; it doesn't collect online RSVPs or sync with one.
How do I get started?
Create an account, name your date, and start your guest list. Free needs no card; Premium can be added from inside the app whenever you want the seating charts, households, and the AI features. Start for free.
What does the AI actually do?
Nine things today: builds a personalized task list with real due dates, picks the three things that matter most this week, optimizes your budget with the math shown, builds a starting budget from what you care about, drafts vendor emails, drafts RSVP follow-ups, seats a whole room in one pass, turns your seating notes into sit-together and keep-apart rules, and reviews a finished chart for problems. Every output is labeled AI-generated in the app, and nothing applies or sends without your review.
Can the AI be wrong?
Yes. AI suggestions use your wedding details and general planning guidance. Review drafts and proposals before using them; the AI doesn't check vendor facts or current prices, and budget guidance isn't professional financial advice.
Does it send emails to my guests or vendors?
No. The AI drafts; you copy the draft into your own email, or open your mail app with it prefilled, and send it yourself. Marking a mailing Sent records its status in Correspondence; it does not send the mailing.
What happens after the wedding?
The app changes shift. For the first two weeks you're simply married: the numbers stay as they are, but the overdue flags and warning washes go quiet. After that it settles into a record: thank-yous sent, anything still owed, whatever's left over from the planning, with your correspondence opening on thank-yous. When the wrap-up is done, the wedding can be kept as a keepsake: everything stays, nothing nags.
Can my partner or planner use it too?
Yes. Invite them to your wedding and you plan from the same data, on your phones or your computers. One plan covers your planning team: on Premium, up to six contributors get every Premium feature with the creator's plan. Free includes one.
Plans & billing
What do I get for free?
The complete core planner, forever: unlimited guests, RSVP tracking, budget and expenses, vendors, your venue, the occasions around the day, and tasks with a ready-made starting list. No card required. Households and correspondence, meal tracking, extra venues, the seating charts, and the AI features are the Premium part.
How much AI usage do I get?
A generous monthly allowance, shared by you and your contributors. If you use it up, new AI requests pause until it resets at the start of the next calendar month; your records and manual tools keep working. Auto-seat's reshuffles never count against it.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes, from inside the app. Cancellation takes effect at the end of your billing period, with no fee.
What happens to my data if I cancel or downgrade?
Nothing is deleted. Guests, budget, vendors, and tasks keep working as before. Correspondence, seating charts, extra venues, and meal tracking are stored in full and come back the moment you upgrade again.
Is there a refund policy?
Yes. Your first subscription is fully refundable within 7 days of purchase, no questions asked. Read the refund policy.
Data & privacy
What happens to my data when I use AI features?
The content you provide (budget details, vendor information, message context) is sent to Anthropic, our AI service provider, to generate a response. Anthropic processes it on our behalf and doesn't use it to train AI models. Read the privacy policy.
Is my wedding data private?
Yes. Your wedding is visible only to you and the people you invite to it. We don't sell your data, and your vendor notes never go into an outgoing email draft.
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